Support for Parents and Carers

Caring for others can be rewarding but exhausting. Learn how to look after yourself while supporting those you love.

The Challenges of Caring

Whether you're a parent supporting a child's mental health or a carer looking after a loved one, the emotional demands can be significant.

It's common to feel guilt, exhaustion, frustration, or helplessness. These feelings don't make you a bad parent or carer — they make you human.

Recognising that you need support too is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Looking After Yourself

Set boundaries: You can't pour from an empty cup. It's okay to say no and protect your own energy.

Seek respite: Regular breaks, even short ones, help prevent burnout and keep you able to care effectively.

Connect with others: Peer support from other parents and carers who understand your situation is invaluable.

Access financial and practical support: Many organisations offer grants, respite services, and practical help for carers.

Prioritise your mental health: Consider therapy or counselling for yourself, not just for the person you're caring for.

Where to Find Help

Your GP can refer you to local carer support services and help with your own mental health needs.

Charities like Carers UK, Young Minds, and Mind offer specialist advice and support for parents and carers.

Online communities can provide connection and understanding from people in similar situations.

Don't wait until you're in crisis to ask for help. Early support makes a real difference.

Remember: taking care of yourself is part of taking care of the people you love.

Educational self-help, not a diagnosis, treatment or crisis service. If you are in immediate danger, call 999. For UK listening support, call Samaritans on 116 123 or text SHOUT to 85258.

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