How Do I Manage Stress?

When everything feels like too much. Practical ways to cope when stress takes over.

Understanding Your Stress

Stress is your body's response to demands - some stress is normal and even helpful.

But when stress becomes constant or overwhelming, it affects everything: sleep, mood, health, relationships.

The first step in managing stress is recognising what's causing it and how it's affecting you.

Quick Stress Relief (For Right Now)

Box breathing: Breathe in for 4 counts, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4. Repeat 4 times.

Cold water: Splash cold water on your face or hold ice cubes to activate your calming response.

5-4-3-2-1 grounding: Name 5 things you see, 4 you hear, 3 you feel, 2 you smell, 1 you taste.

Movement: A short walk, stretch, or even shaking out your limbs releases tension.

Step outside: Fresh air and a change of scenery can interrupt the stress spiral.

Building Stress Resilience

Prioritise sleep: Poor sleep makes everything harder - protect your rest.

Move regularly: Exercise is one of the most effective stress relievers.

Set boundaries: Learn to say no to protect your time and energy.

Connect with others: Social support buffers stress - don't isolate.

Limit news and social media: Constant information overwhelm increases stress.

Schedule downtime: Rest isn't earned - it's necessary.

Address the source: Sometimes you need to change situations, not just cope with them.

When Stress Becomes Too Much

If stress is affecting your ability to work, sleep, or function, seek support.

Chronic stress can lead to burnout, anxiety, and physical health problems.

Talking to a GP or therapist can help you develop personalised coping strategies.

You don't have to wait until you're at breaking point to ask for help.

Educational self-help, not a diagnosis, treatment or crisis service. If you are in immediate danger, call 999. For UK listening support, call Samaritans on 116 123 or text SHOUT to 85258.

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